Your special day will be hosted in our Downs Suite, which seats up to 100 of your favourite people for your ceremony and wedding breakfast. You will have access to your own private garden and stretch tent that have incredible views of the South Downs, meaning your guests can be indoors or out throughout the day – perfect for bubbles after your ceremony in the summer. Your wedding breakfast will become the meal you dream about - it is totally customisable from our wedding menu, meaning you can get exactly what you’re looking for to enjoy as your first meal as a married couple. Once the evening arrives, we will turn the room around and make it ready for you and up to 150 guests to dance the night away! Whether you want a band or DJ, our space is perfect for having the party of your dreams. Finish your day with a stay in our Honeymoon Suite, and invite loved ones to stay with you in one of our 11 rooms available. Our event managers and conscientious team are always on hand to assist throughout the day, meaning you don’t have to worry about a thing – your only priority is having the best day of your lives.

Personal Message from the Manager

Name of Wedding Contact: Helen Pomery

Congratulations on your engagement, and thank you for considering Tottington Manor Hotel as the venue for your wedding. As one of the owners I would like the opportunity to meet and tour you around the venue and find out more as to how we can tailor your day to make it memorable and special. Hospitality is at the core of what we do, we have fabulous food prepared from local ingredients, a fabulous location with stunning views of the South Downs and we look forward to meeting you.

Experience

Year Business Was Established

2021

No. of Weddings Hosted

More than 50

Public Liability Insurance

Yes

No. of People In Team

Overview of Tottington Manor

Wedding Venue Type

Country House / Manor House

Wedding Venue Capacity

Dining Capacity

100

Reception Capacity

150

Wedding Venue Accommodation

No. of Bedrooms

Sleeps No. of People

Bridal Suite

Honeymoon Suite

Wedding Ceremony & Reception

Wedding Licence

Sound System Available

Dancefloor Available

Outdoor Ceremony Available

Wedding Venue Details

Bridal Changing Facilities

Disabled Access

On-Site Parking

Ballroom

In-House Wedding Coordinator

Pet Friendly

Outdoor Reception Space

Landscaped Gardens

Grade I/II Listed Building

Wedding Catering

In-house Catering

Alcohol Licence

In-House Wine List

Pricing for Tottington Manor

Packages (total price)

£6,250 - £15,295

Number of guests included: 68

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Reviews for Tottington Manor
(36)

Dan & Caley, November 2023

Happy couple married in November

May 2024

Better than I ever imagined!

My husband and I had the most amazing Wedding Day, everything went to plan and better than I ever imagined. Helen and her team are amazing! Kat was our Wedding Coordinator, and she was amazing, she helped us plan things we didn't even realise we needed to do. The food was amazing, and we had so many compliments from our guests! I would recommend Tottington tp anyone looking to get married!

Sevi & Ollie, April 2024

Happy couple married in April

May 2024

"I saw the venue, I knew that was THE PLACE"

I saw the venue and I met Helen I knew that was THE PLACE I wanted to get married. They take control of everything to make sure your special day is beautiful and in the way we wanted it to be. The word "no" is not in their vocabulary unlike the other venues we looked at! Helen and Cat listened to all our needs and worries, and were always a calming influence. I never had any stress in the arranging of the wedding or even on the actual wedding day. This place will always be so special for me!

Kieron & Sarah, May 2024

Happy couple married in May

May 2024

"an exceptional experience from start to finish!"

We recently celebrated our wedding at Tottington Manor, and it was an exceptional experience from start to finish. From our first meeting with Helen, one of the co-owners, to our interactions with Cat and the rest of the team, we were met with incredible attentiveness and warmth. You absolutely cannot put a price on that kind of hospitality. We are very happy and deeply grateful for the wonderful experience. Thank you, Tottington Manor! (especially Cat for keeping the day on track! <3)

Garry & Ruth, May 2024

Happy couple married in May

May 2024

A Beautiful Team & Venue

Ruth and I have just been married at the Tottington Manor. Cat and the team have been amazing. From the beginning to the end they were with us at every point. Such a beautiful team and venue that work so incredibly hard to make your day special. We would highly recommend. The food was just amazing and all our wedding guests loved the whole experience. Thank you all for making our day so memorable xx

Chris & Fiona Danes

Happy couple married in September

November 2023

Such an amazing, special day.

Well what can we say….Had the most perfect day. Absolutely beautiful venue for our wedding. Can’t thank you enough for all you did for us. From the lead up to the actual day. Helen and Cat have an amazing team. Nothing was too much trouble. All of our guests were equally impressed.

Zoe Broster, Google

Happy couple married in September

November 2023

Nothing short of perfect

We had our wedding at Tottington Manor in mid august and it was nothing short of perfect, start to finish! Right from our first look round Cat filled us with such confidence and despite me being a massive control freak, I felt 100% confident putting my wedding in her hands. The whole team were so helpful... On the big day itself all our guests constantly complimented the venue and staff and we received countless comments on how attentive and polite they all were.

Amy, Google

Happy couple married in June

November 2023

I'd do it all again tomorrow!

We had our Wedding at Tottington and if I could, I'd do it all again tomorrow! Staff were INCREDIBLE, nothing was too much trouble and they were just so lovely and friendly. The food was beautiful, presented so well and tasted amazing! The rooms are gorgeous and so comfy and the surroundings just speak for themselves! Cat is honestly like superwoman, there was nothing she hadn't thought of, she assisted us the whole way from booking to partying and we're so very grateful to the Tottington Team x

Richard & Debs, Google

Happy couple married in April

November 2023

If we could give more stars, we would!

Wow!! If we could give more stars we would. We booked Tottington for our wedding and from the start have been impressed with the support in the planning of our wedding. Helen had a wealth of knowledge on people to contact for making our day so special, including a Bagpiper and a wonderful florist. Saturday was our big day and it went so smoothly and exceeded our expectations we can not thank you enough. We have had so many positive comments from our guests.

Jennifer Barnes, Google

Happy couple married in November

November 2023

An Absolute Perfect Day

Oh my goodness, where to start?! What a wonderful experience we had getting married at Tottington Manor... The food is amazing, outstanding and something that many guests have commented on. The day itself was seamless and ran perfectly ... We felt that we had the whole building at our disposal and all the staff were so attentive making us feel like royalty. An absolute perfect day in a perfect setting. Best day of my life.

Excellent, we went there for a family wedding and had a great time. From service, to setting everything was beautifully done. The icing on the cake was the food, from canapés, main meal to evening buffet everything was really good with so many lovely flavours. I would really recommend it. Thankyou and well done.

Location & Contact Details for Tottington Manor

Website

Phone

Wedding Venue Address

Edburton Road, Henfield, West Sussex, BN5 9LJ, England, United Kingdom

Travel Notes

Just 10 minutes from the A23 at Pyecombe and from the A27 at Shoreham, and just 20 minutes from Central Brighton, Worthing and Crawley.

Nearest Town

Brighton

Nearest Motorway & Junction

A23/A27

Nearest Train Station

Hassocks

Nearest Airport

Gatwick

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Describe the best wedding that happened at Tottington Manor?

A couple invited family and relatives of all ages to their special day, and so hired in garden games, a photobooth, DJ etc. Because of the location of the Downs Suite with its Gardens, family and friends from every walk of life were spending time with each other and joining in the festivities. The venue was full of laughter and happiness all day, and it was a wonderful atmosphere to be a part of. That family will have great memories from the day.

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Listen to the advice of everyone you know, but make decisions that reflect what YOU want from your big day.

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

A guest book - a wedding can be quite a busy day, yet each guest can take some time to write their thoughts and well wishes into the book. The couple can have a great time reading and remembering their family and friends memories of their time together.

Describe Tottington Manor in 5 adjectives

Location, Hospitality, Food, Views, Care.

Where’s the best photo spot at Tottington Manor?

Looking out from the stretch tent of the Downs Suite Gardens across the front of the Hotel and out to the hillsides of the South Downs.

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at Tottington Manor?

We have the occasional guest who you would recognise from TV and Sport who visit the restaurant, but not for a wedding!

What’s your favourite canapé?

I like to keep it simple with just a small amount of parfait topped with a little fruity chutney.

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

Cheese, Crackers with a side of Caramelized Onion Chutney

What is Tottington Manor most unique feature?

The View of the South Downs and the Jacuzzi Bath in the Honeymoon Suite.

What part of your business are you most proud of?

The team who provide the top level hospitality, with care and passion every step of the way.

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